Don't make your life about you, rather helping others; That's a life!
What will be echoed the most at your Homegoing Celebration? Will EVERYBODY repeat how kind and loving you were to others? For the children of God, what others remember most should line up with our purpose on earth - "loving our neighbor as yourself". I make it a goal every day that I have a positive influence on others and I never underestimate the value of simple acts of kindness.